His Name is Drizzy, and he ain't perfect

so since everyone boarded the Drake train, I'd be lyin if I wasn't rollin my eyes at some of you...I've known about Drake since 2007, when my best friend, whose a DJ put me on to him, either wayyyyyy here's some of my pics from Drake in concert...shit was one of the best performances I've ever seen.

SIDEBAR: the fact that I need to tag these pics is lame but hey whatevaaaa

it's been too long and your lost with out meee

Really though, ALMOST A YEAR?! shit can change in a month and I wait a YEAR to do this?! sick.

Fact #1 Nelfi has joined the Army. It is a choice which was not an easy choice but it feels really right for us, and it is securing a future for us... HOOAH!

Fact #2 I have decided for a career change...but more to come on that later. This summer/fall taught me a lot about who I am, and frankly who some other pple really are.

Fact #3 my Ryu baby is HUGE! he is 1 1/2....

all for now, Nelfi leaves for BCT on 01.11.2010.

<3,

T


Mi Babbbbyyyyy Mi Nino!!!!

Victor are you phuckin Fat Donna?!

ii decided that Thursday would be Movie review night....

Raising Victor Vargas is a movie that if your not from NYC or Hispanic prolly won't make much sense to you, HOWEVER...if you are from NYC and/or Hispanic you NEED this movie in your life...







Most of us know a "Victor" or a "Judy", hell ii even dated a Victor type dude before, but this story shows the lighter sides to both main characters who for 90% of the movie have a hard exterior.

Stands on Bars, and Pops on Tables, showin her Designer Labels, you ask her why she's so Unstable..it's that she just don't give a....

Spring is in the air, I can feel it! Winter's gotta go...I need to rock the new shoes I got!

This Saturday is my grandparents 50th Wedding anniversary and they are renewing their vows. I can't wait to be that old and still in love with the same person.

This Sunday is Enryu's presenting in the Church...which I can't wait for...mi gordo~!

I had such a good Valentine's Day...we had dinner at Che' Jenni's in Queens lol...then off to wait in the cold for Candice and her......FIANCEE!!! Yes u read correctly! She deserves to be happy and I hope they last!

I was thinking of my weekends when I was like 21 to about 24 and I think I clubbed FAR TOO MUCH. Every weekend a new outfit, cabfare, drinks,...it was expensive and stressful. I do it from time to time now, but it's not the same...shit has changed I'm 25 in a club with a 21 year old actin foolish...it's become played out....I dunno just my thoughts...I asked some pple...and most agree...while others are 30+ still clubbin like they 22!

And my last random thought of the day is:

Why are dudes STILL rockin skinnier jeans then bitches?!

unbelievable!

this is my "Formal Invite" to NOT watch this show

Ray J...ok fine, he's attractive...but dude is dumb as a box of rocks, and his lame ass show is even dumber!

I met Kim before the video had even dropped, and she was still dating Ray J...crazy I know, but I can see them as a really nice looking couple (with some damn clothes on).

The show is actually sort of boring. He seems so fake....at least with Chance, Real, NY, and all them other VH1 hoes, they came off like they was looking for love...Ray J's lookin for a jump off, yet as I talk all this ish, you know I DVR that ish right?...Sidebar..JoJo aka Cocktail might seem familiar to you..she was on Oxygen's Bad Girls Club season 1.




I HATE Tmobile....I'll repeat, I HATE TMOBILE. I have had every Sidekick since the II, and they keep getting worse...I know I know, then why do I buy them...simple I like the keypad, I can't be typing text messages on something w/out a full keypad...But I now need a new phone...ne ideas?

He's not that curious to take my Mood Swings serious

so...I asked a question on Facebook today and everyone has an opinion on it.

So, I'm asking: "Girls, where would Boys be without Girls to love?"

Simple question yet people took it like crazy talk. Guys and Girls are very simple yet so complicated. I don't doubt that females would be lost without guys as well, but we are far more likely "to get shit done" without a dude...I wouldn't trade my dude for nothing, but I know as well as he knows I DON'T NEED HIM, and then again I think I do need him. When we are apart for a long period of time I get a funny feeling inside like I'm in love all over again, and when I do see him I get this big retarded smile on my face....LOVE is a unique gift, that brings out the best in people...::here is where Monica would Awwww me::

So for those that say F' Love... I used to too, but you just gotta find the right person.

ACCESS DENIED!

2009, Saving for 2011...that's the only thing I'm worried about in 2009!

To my stalkers, No you can't be a "follower" of my blog, No, I will NOT let you comment (I can control comments left because of you) or ne.one else for that matter this blog isn't for everyone else and their opinion of me and my comments, you went as far as hitting me up on MySpace...classy....smh. Let this be the only shine you get on my blog....like ever.

I have a friend who is what some may think as the perfect Wifey, she cooks, cleans, spends guap she doesn't have on him, wears all this kinky shit behind closed doors....alll that. Yet we as her friends, don't really think her dude is as in love with her as she is with him. They only been together like 9 months. She was G'd thinking she was getting a ring for Xmas WRONG. Instead he got her a fake ass braclet. She wants to meet his family (he has met hers several times) he keeps coming up with excuses as to why not to bring her ass home. She spent 400 dollars on concert tickets, only for him to tell her "This isn't that close". Dude is just an ass but she's a bigger one for not seeing he is an ass. So yes I took my ranting to the blog, because if I tell her how dumb she looks I'll justr be considered "MEAN"...I'd rather be MEAN, then being played out.

THROWBACK PICTURE OF THE WEEK:



5 YEARS AGO TO THE MONTH....OUTTA CONTROL!

Random thoughts from 875 Third Ave

I have not been on this site since October...that's just outta Control!.

I think that I should have a lot more to say then, Xmas Shopping is becoming a task and no longer fun. I have been thinking of a vacation with the better half, rather then a gift exchange but we shall see.

I am on better, if not good terms with Raldy, I think it has a lot to do with the fact that I hold grudges, Nel used to mention her name and I'd spazz, now I'm cool with it. I'm actually buying her an XMas gift...oh the horror.

My Baby is getting SOOOO Big!! he is amazing! everything he does is amazing to watch!

with all this said:

I'm Out!



look at my baby makin my faces!!!!


oh and here is my pic with nkotb....hateeeeeeee on ittttttt:

So he let her lick the SINGER?!?!

Lollipop...YA!





my excerpt pulled from NKOTB.COM

M.S.G. Meet & Greet.

SICK!!!!

Ok to my sexy 7 (left down) May and Yvette we did it EXACTLY how we planned!

I almost got fired yesterday because I had to leave work early for a hair appointment which didn't work out so I ended up doing my own hair (Yeh that was me the girl in pined up curls till we got to the VIP Room) So we had the SEXY 7 (Me, Yvette, May, Karen, Phylicia, April and Carmen) and we were trying to just keep it us as a group but they threw 3 other girls in with us (it didn’t matter though cuz we had a plan!) We all had gum (no stank breath) but I lost mine laughing, so I grabbed a lollipop from my bag. As we lined up I ended up in the front of the line and then I got nervous. So Phylicia and I go in the room first and I hear “Hangin Tough” and I get this sudden burst of energy. The sexy 7 (I don’t remember who gave us that name..lol) had it down who was near who (May loves Jordan, but I somehow convinced her that Donnie was more her type) so I got the Jordan hug first and ran to everyone else so that I’d be back to Jordan for the picture. As I’m walking back from Danny (who with me in heels comes up to my boobs which was hilarious) I see Jordan and Joe posted talking about me so it went like this (Keep in mind, I’m 5’9 w/o heels and pretty thick in the hip area and I have a unique walk) :

ME: ”Why ya’ll laughin, what happened?”
JORDAN: ”NAHHH (laughing) I’m just sayin, look at you workin it hard I like that.
JOE: He does like it but make sure you don’t choke on that lollipop .

And the rest of the conversation stays between me Jordan and Joey (and the Sexy 7) because the rest of this conversation would get me into soooo much trouble and some of you know my boyfriend so…

We are all movin around the room and I see Phylicia with Joey and she’s cying…and I go to her awwww don’t cry! Joey she’s crying!! He comes up to me teary eyed “I knowww we don’t want her to cryyyy!” we both get teary and start laughing (Not at you Phy, we loved ya).

One of the girls that got thrown in our group comes to Jordan before the pic I gotta get my hug (ummmm no wait till AFTER DUH) so I move aside so she can but she is like following me every time I move. Jordan goes “She’s workin with you for you to get a hug but your hiding hurry (lol) she gets her hug and they haven’t taken the picture but I know it’s coming so I told her “Look there is a free arm by Jon” and for some reason she goes Jordan starts laughin at me like you’re crazy!

Picture Time: I see Joe and Yvette walking hand and hand to the other side of Jordan and all I can think is YES we did wat we said we had to! (May was pinned under Donnie for dear life) I was on one side of Jordan and Joey is on the other side of him… fine with me! I look and Carmen is kneeling with Jon and April and Phy are in good spots so all is right in the picture world. I kneel a lil so that I’m not so tall and in the picture… it’s gonna look like I’m posing HARD, but it was just so I wasn’t so tall and Jordan swore I was posing “look at you posing all hard!” Jordan starts laughin like it’s the funniest thing he ever saw…I love him…dead ass serious I love that man. I hugged every1 as I was leaving and Jordan Joey and I started laughing about the LOLLIPOPGATE loololol.

SEXY 7 WE GON DO IT AGAIN SUMMER 2009!!!!

The show was AMAZING!!! Better then the AC Show.


Donnie put on a Yankee fitted and that had to be the best sight ever!



^^ NOT MY PIC...I HAVEN'T POSTED MINE YET

NYC had a few special things no other spot had so I had a ball! I got more video then pics but ugh my ass was in the 5th row so HA!!

MEET & GREET was worth it n just wait 2009 it's ON!

They gon' Gimme Some GROWN MAN!

17 days left. AHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! 5* VIP like it's cool like dat!




I'll actually write a real blog later